ok and like...mods....i cant add them. ive tried and i cant find the unpackers or anything

i wonder if i have to host the forums myself to be able to? and i havent figured out how to do that. or do i have to pay...?
You cannot ad Mods to your forum. SMF does that. He adds Mods that he wants us to have. The warning mod, as I said, has been requested before, so he is already aware of that one. At the moment there is no Pro/Paid Service with SMF for Free so yes you would have to host the forum yourself.
btw... please in the future when posting screenshots use thumbnail images if the image is large

Here is a link for help with that if you need it:
How to Post Thumbnails